Some things are outside what an app can help with

Honey-Do is for two people who both want things to be fairer and are both willing to work at it. It isn't couples therapy and it isn't a substitute for one.

If conversations at home involve fear, if one person controls the money, the schedule, or who you see, if you're being monitored, or if you find yourself managing someone's anger rather than sharing a household — that isn't a chore-distribution problem, and no amount of fair splitting will fix it. Those situations are more common than people think and there's real, free, confidential help available.

Wanting couples counselling isn't a sign things are bad. Plenty of people go while things are basically fine and find it useful.